Life Happens weather we think we are ready or not
Man Life can change in an instant. In the blink of an eye my Ex husband departed this earth and the person I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with left me.
Leave and be left.
What I mean by that is I left my husband and a few years later I found someone else and he left me. I was my husbands “first girl” and my new partners “next girl”
For all my talk about how its so important not to be invested in the outcomes of things, I sure got wound up in the outcomes of my last relationship.
How is it that happens?
HUMAN NATURE!
We can know and be smart about all sorts of things but toss us together with another human and add in sex, love and rock and roll and our Ego rears its head. Now I don’t think Ego is a bad thing, what I think is our Ego is part of our shadows and if we can accept it and integrate it into our self we become whole, its when we lead with it we get into trouble.
We as humans seem to sometimes, often, disconnect from ourselves when we are in relationship with others. The disconnect doesn’t happen all the time, and sometimes it is a gradual thing, and sometimes if we have partners who truly love us, can hold space for us and are connected to who they are, we can come back to ourselves within the partnership. These are the relationships that are built to last.
I think a lot of the time relationships break up because, yes lack of communication, but also the disconnect. What I mean by that is if we are connected to our inner beings when we meet someone , THAT is what sparks the interest when we begin, but if we start loosing ourselves within the relationship then the spark begins to dissipate and if there is no communication and no work towards reconnecting then I believe the relationship is doomed.
A partner who is not willing to be there for you through all of the rough stuff, and believe me disconnecting from yourself is ROUGH, isn’t your person. Know this and walk away, you need to save your own self from this as it can turn and have you coming completely from your ego instead of your inner being. Coming back from full on EGO is a bumpy journey. Reigning that in requires Wonder woman’s golden lasso of truth.
We can delve into the EGO and our shadows another time for that discussion is long and involved.
My path has taken a new direction and my journey has been kickstarted once again.
Join me in this life of making connections with ourselves and others.
Tell me your story Luvs
Your Inner Goddess